… A Licence to Chill

Maybe I’m over analyzing things here but ever since I can remember I have felt a certain social pressure to dress and present myself in a way that would attract others or make them take me seriously. It didn’t take me long to realize without mascara everyone thought I looked tired. Although hair, makeup and fashion can be fun, they can also be a burden.

Strangely, I have felt this burden slightly lift since becoming a mom. I will look tired with or without mascara yet people no longer feel the need to tell me so. I guess they see the toddler and put the dots together. My hair is rarely touched and my legs hardly ever shaven, but I feel great! (However, this isn't to say a certain level of hygiene is no longer required; because it most definitely is.)

Being distracted by a busy toddler has made visits with a mirror next to impossible and in turn I have thought very little about what I look like these days. Although it was a little annoying at first, I’ve found it becomes incredibly relaxing and freeing. Now, when I want to put time into “dolling” myself up, it’s fun and exciting.

Not being as consumed with how I look on the outside has made room for me to feel good about who I am on the inside. God has given me unique gifts, interests and ideas that I can use to show others His great love for them. My value does not come from my current BMI, style of clothes or how well put together I am. In His eyes I am beautiful 24/7; and so are you.

Lesson learned; don't wait to have a child in order to discover your true beauty and release the need to lose yourself in your outward appearance.

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Proverbs 31:30

"Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised."